I always enjoyed banana pudding. It was a part of my upbringing. The "classic" I grew up with was made with Jello pudding mix, vanilla wafers and bananas. Southerners are known for shortcut cooking (using mixes and pre-made ingredients). I am not sure why. Maybe because it can be kinda warm (OK, it can be really hot . . . and humid) in the summer and reducing time in the kitchen is a good thing. Summer heat is a good excuse to cook less, especially in the days before A/C. Who knows? I lived through an era of canned foods and box mixes and so that is how my mom cooked her banana pudding. She had five kids, I am sure her hands were full.
Banana pudding is one of those dishes that have always existed in my life. It was always at family reunions and made appearances at our Sunday dinners. It is one of those southern staples. It just was. And will continue to be, although we don't do desert as often as when I was a kid. How did this simple, but delicious dish come to be? I never questioned the legitimacy of this desert, ever, until now.